Photography by Brad Smith Photography | @smithbrad
Rainy and Paul tied the knot at Glen Manor House with a theme that blended classic New England charm and traditional Chinese elements.
The Meet Cute: They met online during the height of Covid in 2020. They both had just moved to New England to prepare for (virtual) school when it was almost impossible to meet people in-person. They made the best of it. “We joked that the dating app we used should feature us as a ‘success story,’” says Rainy.
The Engagement: The couple had a photo shoot planned in Minnehaha Falls in Minneapolis. Paul had prepped everything, including securing an engagement ring from his friend’s family business. As much as he tried to keep it a surprise, Rainy suspected something was up. It was a busy day in the public park, and when Paul proposed and Rainy said “yes,” people nearby joined in the excitement by clapping and cheering for them.
The Venue: They preferred to host the reception in Newport/Portsmouth because of Paul’s connection to the area. He had lived in Newport for a year while working for the Marine Corps. After researching a few different venues, they felt that Glen Manor House was a perfect fit, with its French chateau style home overlooking the Sakonnet River and beautiful gardens. The team managed their custom theme, with many Chinese elements, to a tea.
The Reception: The reception’s color scheme was red and gold to match the traditional Chinese elements. The couple previously mailed invitations to guests that were custom made in China with red and gold lettering and traditional Chinese patterns. A special table at the reception displayed decorations including a “wedding book” written in traditional calligraphy, “lucky candies” that are a traditional Chinese favor for guests, desserts called “lucky pastries,” red envelopes and chopsticks. For the reception, Rainy changed into her traditional Chinese dress “Xiu He” with Chinese hair accessories. The couple also incorporated a Chinese tea ceremony honoring both sets of parents as “mom” and “dad,” and in return the parents handed the bride and groom red envelopes filled with money.
The Advice: “Early, early, early,” says Rainy. “Getting everything done early is the key to enjoying your day!”
The Details
Ceremony: Holy Ghost Church, Providence | Reception: Glen Manor House, Portsmouth | Catering: Russell Morin Catering & Events | Hair and Makeup: Jane C Makeup, Boston, MA | Bridal Attire: Winnie Couture, Boston, MA; ceremony shoes from Lulus | Groom’s Attire: Men’s Wearhouse | Florals: Studio 539 Flowers, Providence | Entertainment: DJ George Confoey
